Friday, April 22, 2011

Why She Won't Go Out With You on a Date

You can't figure it out. You get all the right signals from her and yet nothing. There's a girl who always smile at you, always seems happy to see you. She even told her friends about you. For whatever reason beyond your comprehension, she simply will not go out with you. How do you understand this phenomenon?
Some things to consider when she gives you mixed signal:

You are her best friend. She will not jeopardize the friendship for a relationship that she feels may not work. Many women will analyze a relationship piece by piece. Women will understand that friendship she has can be special especially with a guy. A unique friendship will make it difficult for her to sacrifice.

Her friend likes you. She may have a best friend. She may not risk her relationship with her best friend. This will certainly be something to think about.

It's not about you. Many women have other priorities over relationships. She may be working her way to the top and feel she may not have time for a relationship. She simply may not have time for you.

Bust a move. She may really like you. She may even be waiting for you to make a move. You need to distinguish clearly that you want to go out with her.

There are other reasons why she won't go out with you. Instead of focusing on her, you can let the chips fall where they may. Forget all about her for a while and start dating other girls. You will suddenly become more interesting to her. Since you are less available to her, she will start missing you.

This is a good time for you to ask her out again. This is the moment of truth. You will find out if she really likes you. It is important to find about now rather than later. If you happened to get rejected, maybe it's time to move on.

Getting a girl to go out with you may not be an exact science however; you do need a lot of research, methodology, and experiences to have a marginal change to be confident about your goal. Men are looking for quick and painless ways to achieve what they want. This will ultimately fail them. Understanding every part of dating relationship leads to understanding it as a whole. When this happens to you, don't just focus on that part along, but think about all parts of your dating relationship.

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