Learning how to pick up women isn't a subject you can learn in school. Although you know you look great and you've visualized yourself sweeping the woman of your dreams off her feet thousands of time in your mind, for some reason, when you see her, you freeze up.
The two of you lock eyes. You smile. She smiles. You smile back. But something won't allow your legs to walk over to meet her.
Is it fear? Is it approach anxiety?
What is it? Whatever it is, you better get over it, and today I'm going to give you some tips to do so. These tips are the basics on how to pick up women, so if you don't know them, you've definitely stumbled upon a goldmine. '
1. Be Yourself
If there's one thing women can do it's spot a fake and phony person the moment they step into a room. So don't shot yourself in the foot by trying to be someone you're not. Just be yourself. You might have to adjust your personality to whatever situation you're currently in, but never try to be something you're not. Trust me, they'll notice it and it will completely minimize your chances of successfully picking women up.
2. Get Your Mind Right
Your thoughts, create your feelings, which lead to your actions. So stop thinking about how you can't pick up women, and start thinking about why you will pick up women. Keep this in mind the next time you head out to pick up women: no woman wakes up wishing she didn't MEET a man that day who swept her off her feet. Realize that women want to MEET you, they just doesn't know they wants to have sex with you yet.
3. Know What You Want
Before you head out to meet beautiful women, know what type of outcome you want from the interaction. Just sex? Just friends? Or do you want a relationship? It's also a good idea to pick up women you actually want to be around. Just because she's crazy about you doesn't mean you have to give her a chance. Those are the relationships that typically end with an ugly outcome.
4. Don't Be Afraid To Flirt
When you're out picking up women, you don't have the time to play around and wait to flirt with them. You've got then and there to build up their attraction in you. You definitely want her to "get to know you", but one of your main objectives is to let her know you see her as being more than just a friend. And you achieve that with flirting.
5. Don't Waste Words
When you "click" with someone you like, you might want to start talking about your favorite childhood cartoon, your favorite dead pets, or your secret fetish. While she definitely wants to know these things about you, she doesn't want to know them all at once. Sometimes, you have to limit the thoughts you share with women for a couple of reasons: you might be insulting her and/or over complementing her. Basically, don't say more than you have to. There's a time and place for everything, and when you first meet a women that isn't the time for your WHOLE life story.
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