Wednesday, April 20, 2011

Get a Girlfriend - 3 Powerful Secrets That Guarantee Success

I always thought that I knew how to get a girlfriend until I realized much later on that knowing and actually practicing the techniques are two different matters. Practicing is by far the more important of the two.

So, how do you get yourself into action to get a girlfriend after you have acquired all the knowledge of picking up girls? But before you consider taking action, you are already paralyzed. Fear is actually behind this paralysis that inhibits you from taking action.

The only way to put fear aside is to face it squarely by actively taking action to squash it. No amount of motivation or pep talk can help you.

Here are some rules that I used to follow to get a girlfriend before action comes naturally to me, fear or no fear.

Rule #1 - Go With Friends. It helps a great deal and gives you much confidence to know that you are not alone in this fearful game of approaching and trying to pick up girls. Fear becomes bearable when it is shared out among friends. If the encounter does not pan out, you don't have to face the debilitating shame of rejection alone. In this way, your fragile ego is protected. Therefore, go with friends for moral support.

Rule #2 - Size Up Your Target Before You Approach. Go for girls who are friendly or shy. Better still; choose girls who look plain or unassuming to start with. You will feel more confident interacting with them. Don't go for glamorous or sophisticated type with whom you stand no chance at all. Keep them for the future when you have acquired much experience and are battle-tested with your skills. Then and only then should you target exclusively on beautiful women to get a girlfriend of your liking.

Rule #3 - Practice, Practice and More Practice. Have you accumulated your 100 encounters yet? How many girls have you approached so far...20, 50, 100...? And what is your success rate?

Practice not only makes perfect your social skills in interacting with women, it builds up your confidence. A battle-tested veteran has an aura of confidence which no amount of skills can ever measure up to. Little things like the way he moves, smiles, his gestures and the words he utters play like an orchestra to put women under his spell. This magnetic quality cannot be learned from books. It can only be gained through much practice from the trenches.

In real life, confidence that come with experience gives a man an edge over his inexperienced rivals. I may even add that experience alone with minimal pick-up skills ensure success with women.

Acting with confidence is more than half the battle won. And this can only be gained through practice, practice and more practice.

That sums up 3 powerful ways to get a girlfriend.

Now that you know action speaks louder than words, it is time to get into action to get a girlfriend for yourself. But don't go in blind. Get an evergreen guide that has helped thousands of men before and practice the powerful techniques contained within it. Don't just read and do nothing. Read, practice and go forth to conquer!

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