How to Tell If She Likes You by Reading Body Language

In face-to-face communication your words account for as little as 7 percent of the perceived impact of the communication. Your vocal tone is about 38 percent, but your non-verbal signals take the lion's share with around 55 percent. This is why you should always pay extra attention to your partner's body language, because not like our subconscious gestures the words may not be honest.

Almost any relationship, no matter how short or long, begins with an eye-glaze longer than a few seconds. This is when the interest or in some cases - the lack of it gets established. Most girls usually play here the 'oh-I'm-so-shy-so -you-should-make-the-first-move card'. If you do wish to proceed you should keep the eye contact, if you don't then just turn away and move on.

The next thing most of the girls do is giving their looks a final polish. This usually means smoothing the clothes, adjusting the hair and make-up and fixing body posture. Now she adds a well-known hair flip and she definitely has your attention. This is usually when they expect you to approach and start a conversation.

Is she leaning towards you? Keep an eye on her body language that indicates she wants more interaction. Girls like doing things like leaning close to you, whispering something in your ear or speaking softly so you have to come closer to talk to her. If she seems to be interested and enthusiastic about being almost too close to you, you know she's interested.

Now if she starts touching you occasionally she's definitely into you. Women who aren't into a man are very careful of avoiding any type of touching that can be interpreted as flirting. Is she bumping into you a lot? Is she touching your shoulders or back? Is she fixing up your appearance and clothes? If you answered yes to any of these questions then she's interested in you.

Some women show their interest by asking questions. They want to know more about your family, closest friends and previous girlfriends. They usually don't mean anything bad by doing it but yes, it may be uncomfortable for you. The more details you give them the more interested in you they get. That's just in their nature.

Girls are very good at marking their territory to signal to the other girls that a guy is taken. This will involve some very fleeting form of touch, possibly on the arm or shoulder. They usually sit near you, try to talk to you as much as possible and laugh at your jokes (both good and bad ones). It's all because they don't want to have competitors around you.

So long story told short, the more eye contact and less personal space you get the better. Always pay attention to the little differences you notice in her behaviour. Occasional touching is a solid proof she expects something more from you two than just being friends. And let's not forget the sudden interest in your past. They usually really do want to get yo know you better. So all you have to do is pay attention to her body language and you will know if she is or isn't interested in you.

Tips to Approaching Women When You Are Scared of Rejection

You are not alone if you get scared of the idea of approaching women because you fear rejection. The fear of rejection is one of the most common social fears that people of all walks of life have. Even a lot of the people that you would think do not have this kind of fear, do. Dealing with it is not always easy. And if it keeps you from actually doing what you want to do, as in, approaching a woman, it can have pretty severe consequences on your life.

After all, what joy can you get out of life if you are held back by the fear of rejection?

Some people will never get over this. They will allow this fear to keep them in virtual chains. They will only socialize with the same people that they feel comfortable with. Some will go as far as staying inside of their house most of the time. Now, it may not really be that bad for you. Still, if it keeps you from walking on over to a woman you find attractive, you have to admit that it does have a negative impact on you and your life.

How do you over come this so that you CAN start approaching women?

Tip 1 - Admit to yourself that this is an issue that you DO want to work on.

Just being able to admit that you have a problem with approaching women is something that you need to be able to do, and most guys will not. They don't want to feel vulnerable or they just don't want to admit it in front of their peers or something. Well, you don't have to openly tell someone else, but you do have to be honest with yourself and admit that you do have a fear of rejection and that it does keep you from advancing on a woman that you would like to be able to talk to and get to know.

Tip 2 - Visualize yourself actually going through the motions of approaching a woman, and imagine yourself being confident and not caring if she rejects you.

The key to using this kind of visualization technique is to make it as REAL as possible. If you do make it as real as you possibly can and you normally get nervous or feel the fear coming over you, then you should be able to feel it when you are just visualizing yourself approaching a woman. If you are not, then you are not making it REAL enough. If you can, visualize everything else that would be there in that situation. Picture the bar, the crowd of people, the noise of the music, etc.

Tip 3 - Take that same visualization, and now drown out all of the other things, so that all you see is the woman you want to approach and feel a sense of calmness coming over you.

Once you are able to get to the point where it feels REAL and you can see everything around you, you want to take away all of the other stuff like the bar, the crowd, the sound of the music. This helps to get you in that zone where you don't feel the nerves so much. And once you feel that calmness come over you and you visualize yourself approaching her, feel what it's like to talk to her now. If it feels more comfortable and like you don't care if she rejects you or not, you're done.

Now, this visualization technique will not make all of the fear instantly go away. You will still feel some it, What it DOES do, is give you a point of reference in your mind where you can see yourself feeling the way that you normally do, changing that feeling, and actually succeeding in making the approach.

Why She Won't Go Out With You on a Date

You can't figure it out. You get all the right signals from her and yet nothing. There's a girl who always smile at you, always seems happy to see you. She even told her friends about you. For whatever reason beyond your comprehension, she simply will not go out with you. How do you understand this phenomenon?

Some things to consider when she gives you mixed signal:

You are her best friend. She will not jeopardize the friendship for a relationship that she feels may not work. Many women will analyze a relationship piece by piece. Women will understand that friendship she has can be special especially with a guy. A unique friendship will make it difficult for her to sacrifice.

Her friend likes you. She may have a best friend. She may not risk her relationship with her best friend. This will certainly be something to think about.

It's not about you. Many women have other priorities over relationships. She may be working her way to the top and feel she may not have time for a relationship. She simply may not have time for you.

Bust a move. She may really like you. She may even be waiting for you to make a move. You need to distinguish clearly that you want to go out with her.

There are other reasons why she won't go out with you. Instead of focusing on her, you can let the chips fall where they may. Forget all about her for a while and start dating other girls. You will suddenly become more interesting to her. Since you are less available to her, she will start missing you.

This is a good time for you to ask her out again. This is the moment of truth. You will find out if she really likes you. It is important to find about now rather than later. If you happened to get rejected, maybe it's time to move on.

Getting a girl to go out with you may not be an exact science however; you do need a lot of research, methodology, and experiences to have a marginal change to be confident about your goal. Men are looking for quick and painless ways to achieve what they want. This will ultimately fail them. Understanding every part of dating relationship leads to understanding it as a whole. When this happens to you, don't just focus on that part along, but think about all parts of your dating relationship.

Piece of cake.

Is relationship a piece of cake? Not really... but I can help you :D

How to Attract Women - Is Texting a Good Way to Attract Women?

There's no doubt about it, texting has becoming an everyday part of most people's lives now. Even my 60 year old mom knows how to send text messages. Because it has become such an integral part of our lives, especially amongst the under 30 crowd, a lot of guys wonder, is texting a good way to attract women. And there are a lot of guys who swear that this is one of the best ways to attract a woman. So, is it?

Hate to say it, but I disagree with the idea that you can use texting to attract a woman. You can easily use it to catch up and touch base with a woman, you can use it to add a little humor to her day with a funny comment, and you can even brighten up her day by sending her a little uplifting text message every now and again.

But does it really ATTRACT women?

Well, if it attracted women, then that would kind of imply that all you needed to do was get a girl's cell phone number and start sending her messages. Say that out loud with me now, getting her number and just sending away text messages. Do you really think that this is a good way to gain rapport, build up sexual tension, or attraction?

If it were, then there's no reason why you couldn't just blast away messages on any social website and attract women. I mean, it would be the same thing pretty much. And you have to have her phone number to send her a text, so why not just hit the send button and call her up and get REAL interaction with her?

Look, texting is a great little tool to stay in communication with someone, but you have to remember what it really is. Words on a tiny little screen. And half the time, it's incomplete words. Words on a screen can be interpreted ANY way the person receiving them wants to. So, if it is going to have any effect on attracting her, she's already got to be feeling SOME attraction for you.

Obviously, there is an exception to this rule. A really lonely woman might just be happy to get a text from a guy, much like she would probably be happy to get a Tweet or a Poke, but if you want to go for quality women... the text is mostly good to keep in touch and for quick little things like... Be there at 8.

Consider this: If a woman receives a text message from a guy she barely knows and it says something like... I miss u, what's her reaction going to be? A little weirded out, probably.

Now, say she gets the SAME message from a guy she's been seeing for the last few weeks and she is really attracted to? Same words, completely different context and reaction from her.

So, is texting a good way to attract women?

Not really. It is a good way to keep in touch and send a random one liner here and there to make her laugh, keep her thinking about you, or build UP any attraction that she is ALREADY feeling for you.

Dating Tips for Shy Guys - How to Get Over Shyness With Girls

Here's a common scenario: You see a girl that you're very attracted to and you want to say something to her but you can't find the right words. It seems that everything that comes out of your mouth is gibberish and that one brief encounter turns into a nightmare. Some of you might even become depressed and worried that you'll never find a girlfriend.

Shyness with girls is a common problem that affects millions of men. The end result is usually the same. These guys eventually end up with the wrong kind of girl or they never get dates. The strange part is that most of these men are confident around other men but when they get around girls, they become totally different beings. This article will show you how to boost your confidence around girls and guide you to a solution that can help get rid of your shyness forever.

Shyness with girls is usually the result of a situation that happened in our childhood. This situation stays in our subconscious mind and affects us when we're older. Some people will go to a therapist or psychologist to try and deal with past issues hoping that it'll bring about a positive change. Others have better luck through self-help programs that's specifically target to men who are shy around girls.

Here are a few exercises you can perform that will boost your confidence:

Stand in front of a mirror and visualize yourself talking to a girl. Notice how you're standing. Are you standing up straight with your shoulders back and chest out. You can project instant confidence through this one action alone.

Another visualization exercise is to lay down in a comfortable position and imagine yourself in an uncomfortable situation with a girl. Think about what you're saying and how you're saying it. Really imagine yourself having a wonderful conversation with a girl. Repeat this positive visualization exercise every chance you get. Just don't do it while you're driving or operating heavy machinery.

If you really want to know how to get over shyness with girls, you'll have to put yourself in the line of fire and face your fears. In other words make it a point to talk to as many girls as you can no matter how uncomfortable you feel. It's just like someone throwing you in the deep end of the pool even though you can't swim. You're either going to learn how to swim at that moment or you're going to drown. Yes, I know this seems harsh but it's reality. You can't expect to go through life being afraid of women. You have to get motivated, kick yourself in the butt, and remain persistent.

In order to effectively learn how to get over shyness with girls, I highly advice you to get started on a step-by-step confidence boosting program. Just be sure to choose the right one because you'll be wasting your time if you choose junk that doesn't work.

Getting Creative and Proactive About Meeting "The One"

People are always asking me "where can I meet a great guy or girl?" and lamenting how hard it can be to meet new, quality people. My answer: anywhere and everywhere is a great place to meet someone if you (1) put yourself in the right mindset, (2) make sure you are looking and feeling your best when you walk out the door, and (3) put out warm, welcoming energy.Don't believe me? A close friend of mine just moved in with her boyfriend who she met on a warm summer afternoon strolling down the sidewalk wearing a cute dress and a smile.

Unfortunately, when people think about making a concerted effort to meet someone they immediately target the most obvious places to go - trendy bars, the gym, etc. But chances are those venues are not yielding anything of consequence. Why? Because even though quality people do go to bars, people are typically lacking a quality point of reference there (the intellectual or physical stimuli helpful in creating a bond is absent and there is no way to know if you have anything in common with the person standing next to you). Of course, the gym provides the physical aspect that a bar does not, but how many married couples do you know who met at the gym?... still thinking? Meeting someone at the gym sounds great in theory, but with everyone's little iPod singing in their ears, it's nearly impossible to strike up a conversation.

So, why not exercise some CREATIVITY in your efforts to meet "the One"? Being a little more strategic in how you go about it, might in fact yield sizable results. One of the easiest ways to get started? Using the benefits of modern technology to your dating advantage. Now please know, I'm not just referring to online dating - that is one way to fool yourself into thinking you are being proactive about your love life when you're not. No, I am talking about getting online and seeing what groups out there appeal to people just like you with similar interests and then actually getting out there.

Do you feel most alive when you're outdoors? Instead of doing a solitary run in the park, why not join a running or hiking group and see who you meet? Like to play trivia games but none of your friends care who invented the Q-Tip? (For the curious: Leo Gerstenzang in 1923 observing his wife wrapping a piece of cotton on the end of a toothpick). Why not find out which restaurant is hosting a Trivial Pursuit night and see what other trivia buffs you meet?

You can't find any groups that excite you? Then maybe it's time to create a group of your own. Is there an activity that has always interested you but you haven't found the time to pursue it? Getting a group together is your first step in taking that "someday I'd like to...." off your to do list, while also increasing your chances of meeting a like-minded person while you're at it.

Maybe this sounds like obvious advice, but it's about actually doing it. You know who you are going to see at so-and-so's party next weekend, or who you are going to talk to at the charity event you go to every year (because you know almost half the Facebook guest list). There are a lot of other people in the city out there that don't go to the events you go to. Who are these people and where do they go?

Time to get out and be proactive. But even if you don't meet your Prince or Princess Charming right away, don't get discouraged - after all, you haven't stopped going to bars or the gym right? And at a minimum, all of your extra curricular activities make you a more interesting date whenever or wherever you end up bumping into Mr. or Mrs. Right!